Affirmation

The Dalai Lama once said, “Our prime purpose in this life is to help others. And if you can’t help them, at least don’t hurt them.”

Today’s generation of students live fear and in competition. There’s a different mentality of how students think today. I often think if this is the new norm for our children. In a competitive way though, I have seen some students try to establish themselves by being involved in every student organization and every sport. I’ve seen the stress that they put themselves through, and I have seen them fail at achieving their goals. And in that moment, I have shared their pain and sadness. I've also cried with them too.

In my profession, I have been what you would call an "ASB moderator" or "student council" moderator; whatever you decide to call it. In the past seven years of doing student council, I have seen many students run for a class election. Some have one, and some have lost.  It always breaks my heart when I see as student defeated, because they feel that they have either let themselves down, or let someone else down that is important to them in their life. There are usually about 6 to 13 students that come and speak to me about how upset or sad they are, because of not winning. I always tell those students, “A leader does not need a title. The just need a heart.”

Our mission, not just as educators, but as human beings is to help those not feel inferior of others. We must be able to help those learn from their failures. The best thing in life is for someone to show a little affirmation.  When you show support towards one another, you become a confidant for others who need some direction. As teachers, we must help promote individuality, and teach our youth that it is okay if you tried and failed. Proving that you can attempt to do something and step out of one’s comfort zone is brave and should be recognized.

For those of who feel mediocre, I would like to inform you that you are amazing. And I say that, because we have a purpose to bring joy to others. So whether you’re in the classroom, or not; give a little affirmation to those around you and make their day better.



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