The Support Assignment

When I think of the word “support” I think of helping somebody. Doesn't matter if it is something little, or big. Support comes from the Latin word, which means to “carry.” It’s a powerful word that cultivates relationships, and brings peace to others during hard times.  Sometimes we tend to stress too much and worry about the near future.  I feel that it is the people you surround yourself with, which brings the best out in you.

Through thick and thin, the people that have come into your life have been placed there for a reason. Their love for you manifests, and the admiration that people have for you brings more comfort in your time of need.

I have an assignment for you to do (If you're willing) The first part of this assignment is to read this story, and take it in. The next part is to reach out to those who have supported you. They can be your parents, brother or sister, extended family members, friends, teachers, colleagues at work, boyfriend, girlfriend, wife, husband or whomever. If you’re lucky enough to have someone or some people in your life that care about you, tell them thank you. Having people that love you is an important thing life.


The Important Things In Life
Author Unknown

A philosophy professor stood before his class with some items on the table in front of him. When the class began, wordlessly he picked up a very large and empty mayonnaise jar and proceeded to fill it with rocks, about 2 inches in diameter.

He then asked the students if the jar was full. They agreed that it was.
So the professor then picked up a box of pebbles and poured them into the jar. He shook the jar lightly. The pebbles, of course, rolled into the open areas between the rocks.
He then asked the students again if the jar was full. They agreed it was.
The professor picked up a box of sand and poured it into the jar. Of course, the sand filled up the remaining open areas of the jar.

He then asked once more if the jar was full. The students responded with a unanimous “Yes.”

“Now,” said the professor, “I want you to recognize that this jar represents your life. The rocks are the important things – your family, your partner, your health, your children – things that if everything else was lost and only they remained, your life would still be full. The pebbles are the other things that matter – like your job, your house, your car. The sand is everything else, the small stuff.”

“If you put the sand into the jar first,” he continued, “there is no room for the pebbles or the rocks. The same goes for your life. If you spend all your time and energy on the small stuff, you will never have room for the things that are important to you. Pay attention to the things that are critical to your happiness. Play with your children. Take your partner out dancing. There will always be time to go to work, clean the house, give a dinner party, or fix the disposal.”


“Take care of the rocks first – the things that really matter. Set your priorities. The rest is just sand.”

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